Oysters, caviar, shavings of rhino horn, the list of so called aphrodisiacs is endless.  But while the effect gastronomic delicacies may have on your sex life is questionable, there is one aphrodisiac that goes without question - your body.

Not tonight dear, I have a headache

How many times have we heard the phrase "not tonight dear, I have a headache"?  As clichéd as the concept may be, avoiding intimacy with your partner probably has more to do with the way you feel about yourself than with any problem with your partner.

When we're having a "fat day", the last thing we feel like is exposing our bodies.  We feel self conscious, and non sexual.  Sex "with the lights off" speaks volumes about covering up our insecurities.

Love with the lights on

Clearly what is needed is a body makeover.  Giving yourself the gift of losing weight will pay rich dividends in the bedroom.  Nothing can be more of a turn on that two taut bodies sharing an intimate moment.  Having a firm body, by using a program such as The Weight Loss International Slim for Life Program, is the best aphrodisiac known to man, since feeling good about ourselves and the way we look leads to the desire of sharing those benefits with our partner.