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Dr Phil tells
Oprah his weight loss advice
The legendary, sometimes harsh and brutally
honest, Dr Phil has opinions on just about everything. Losing
weight is no exception, as he roles this art form into his daily
philosophies.
What's your
excuse?
Dr Phil says that when it comes to losing
weight, there are no excuses. He doesn't
believe people
can blame their metabolisms or their lack of will power. He tells
Oprah, "You choose to be overweight. Accept that you're lifestyle
is contributing to your obesity."
He's regularly stated that people do what
works best for them, and that your actions aren't mere accidents.
"Your obesity serves a purpose for you. What is your payoff?" Dr
Phil believes that people carry weight for a reason. Often it's to
protect them against intimacy, or it is a way of avoiding dealing with
their emotional problems.
Dr Phil believes that you "can't change what
you don't acknowledge." Food has but one purpose, and this is to
fuel your body. It shouldn't be used as a mechanism to deal with
your emotions.
He speaks of the internal talking that goes on
in our minds. Most people set themselves up for failure, because
their internal talking is telling themselves they're going to fail.
Dr Phil's five
steps to your weight loss goal
1. Set a
very specific goal
Dr Phil reminds people that
losing weight requires changes to their thoughts and
behaviours.
He suggests people should set goals for the weight loss as well as for
their emotions.
Rather than setting vague
goals like "I want to lose weight", he recommends that you should be
specific. How much weight? How do you want to feel?
2. Work out
a very specific strategy
Dr Phil tells Oprah that
will power alone doesn't work. People need a very specific
strategy. One ideal strategy would be the
Weight Loss International Slim for Life Program.
"Plan ahead," he says.
Avoid situations where there will be fast foods, and instead, stock your
pantry with healthy foods.
3. Identify
small, measurable steps
Implement steps that will
suit your lifestyle. "Be sure to move towards a positive goal, not
just away from being fat."
4. Create a
healthy, realistic timeline
Choose fixed dates for the
weight you want to be in the future, starting with small steps.
Add those dates to your calendar, and stick to them. Don't expect
results overnight. It takes time to put into place a proper
lifestyle.
5. Create
meaningful monitoring and accountability
Dr Phil tells Oprah that if
you know that you'll have to report your progress to someone else,
you're more likely to stick to it. "Go public" with someone you
trust can keep you accountable. |